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Lifestyle Ownership with Carlos Mims

Stop chasing money. Own the life you actually want.

Define the lifestyle you want, find out what it really costs, and build your finances around it. Start with a free 5-minute assessment that shows exactly where to focus next.

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  • Licensed NC agent since 2006
  • Author & educator
  • Free, 5-minute assessment
Carlos Mims, financial coach and founder of Lifestyle Ownership in Raleigh, NC

Define Your Lifestyle

Get Out of Debt

Create Cash Flow

Minimize Taxes

Protect What You Build

Invest Toward Ownership

Why Lifestyle Ownership

Most people don't have a money problem. They have a direction problem.

Working harder and chasing the next raise rarely fixes it. Lifestyle Ownership starts with the life you want, puts a real number on it, then builds a step-by-step plan for debt, cash flow, taxes, protection and investing so every dollar has a job.

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Pillars, one clear plan
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Carlos Mims leading a Lifestyle Ownership financial literacy workshop

Real workshops. Real conversations.

The framework

Six pillars. One plan built around your life.

Every Lifestyle Ownership client works through the same six areas, in the order that fits their situation.

Define Your Lifestyle

Get specific about the time, income, freedom and impact you want, then put a monthly price on it.

Get Out of Debt

Know exactly what you owe and follow a payoff plan that shrinks it without wrecking your life.

Create Cash Flow

Grow your income and build a second stream so your lifestyle is funded without constant pressure.

Minimize Taxes

Use legal deductions, credits and smarter income structure to keep more of what you earn.

Protect What You Build

Put the right protection in place so one setback does not undo years of progress.

Invest Toward Ownership

Invest with a clear strategy so your money keeps working for you, even when you are not.

Watch before you start

Discover Lifestyle Ownership: Building a Foundation for Your Future

Discover Lifestyle Ownership and explore what it means to take a more intentional approach to your future. Learn about the company’s mission, its commitment to helping individuals move forward with confidence, and the importance of making informed decisions that support long-term personal and financial goals.

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Free Lifestyle Assessment

Are you owning your lifestyle, or financing it?

Rate 30 statements across the six pillars. You will see your scores the moment you finish, and a full results letter lands in your inbox.

  • A score for each of the 6 pillars
  • Your total Lifestyle Ownership score out of 150
  • The one area to focus on first
  • An option to talk it through with Carlos
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“Know your number first. Everything else gets easier.”
Carlos C. Mims, Founder


The book

Lifestyle Ownership: The Introduction

An introductory guide to exiting the financial rat race and discovering a path to owning the lifestyle you want. Carlos walks you through the framework he teaches in his workshops, in plain language you can act on tonight.

  • Find your Lifestyle Number
  • Spot the money habits keeping you stuck
  • Build a simple plan around the six pillars

$14.99

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See the 6 Workbooks

Go deeper with the workbooks.
Six guided workbooks, one per pillar. $20 each, or $50 with video lessons.

How it works

From assessment to ownership in four steps

Start Step One

01

Take the assessment

Rate 30 statements in about five minutes and see where you stand across all six pillars.

02

Get your results

Your scores appear on screen and a personal results letter is emailed to you right away.

03

Follow the 5-day guide

Short daily emails built around your lowest scores, with one action to take each day.

04

Build your plan

Join a workshop, pick up a workbook or book a free call with Carlos to map your next 90 days.

What's Your Number?

What is a Lifestyle Number, and how do you find yours?

Your Lifestyle Number is the monthly amount it takes to fund the life you actually want, not the one you are settling for. Once you know it, every decision about debt, budgeting, income and investing has a clear target.

  • List what your ideal month looks like: home, family, travel, giving and free time
  • Price each part honestly, then add savings and protection
  • Compare it with your take-home pay to see the gap you are closing
Find My Starting Point

Example monthly Lifestyle Number

Home and utilities

$2,400

Family, food and transport

$1,500

Travel and fun

$600

Giving and saving

$900

Protection and insurance

$350

Lifestyle Number

$5,750 / mo

Illustration only. Your number is personal, and the assessment shows where to start.

Financial coach vs financial advisor

Do you need a financial coach or a financial advisor?

Both help, but they solve different problems. Most families need a clear plan and steady habits before they need an investment portfolio.

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A financial coach like Lifestyle Ownership

  • Builds your budget, debt payoff and cash flow plan with you
  • Focuses on habits, mindset and day-to-day money decisions
  • Helps you define your Lifestyle Number and goals
  • Workshops, workbooks and accountability you can afford

Usually later

A traditional financial advisor

  • Manages investment portfolios and retirement accounts
  • Often requires minimum assets to get started
  • Focuses on growing money you already have
  • A great next step once your foundation is in place

Who we help

Built for working families ready to stop financing their lifestyle

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Working parents, 35 to 50

Balancing careers, kids and bills, and ready for a plan that finally makes room for the future.

Couples planning together

Get on the same page about money, set shared goals and stop arguing about the budget.

First-generation wealth builders

Learn what nobody taught you about credit, taxes, protection and investing, step by step.

Side-hustlers and small business owners

Turn extra income into real cash flow and structure it to keep more of what you earn.

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Raleigh, NC · In person and virtual

Workshops and speaking

Financial literacy workshops in Raleigh and across North Carolina

Carlos brings the Lifestyle Ownership framework to groups who want practical, judgment-free money education. Sessions cover budgeting, getting out of debt, building cash flow and protecting what your family is building.

  • Churches and community organizations
  • Employers, HR teams and employee resource groups
  • Schools, nonprofits and youth programs
  • Virtual sessions for groups outside the Triangle
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Call 919-205-8485

Financial education, made practical

Financial coaching for working families in Raleigh and beyond

Lifestyle Ownership helps adults balancing careers, debt and long-term goals build a financial strategy around the life they want. Coaching, workshops, books and workbooks from Raleigh, NC financial educator Carlos C. Mims.

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Financial coaching in Raleigh, NC

One-on-one financial coaching and group workshops in the Raleigh area for families who want a clear plan, not more confusing advice.

A debt payoff plan that fits your life

Learn exactly what you owe, which balances to tackle first and how to get out of debt without giving up the life you are working for.

Budgeting, cash flow and side income

Turn your Lifestyle Number into a monthly budget, free up cash flow and start building a second income stream with confidence.

Tax strategy, protection and investing

Understand how taxes, insurance protection and long-term investing fit together so your money keeps working toward ownership.

Reviews and testimonials

Real stories from families who started owning their lifestyle

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Video Testimonial

“Working with Carlos at Lifestyle Ownership has been an incredible experience. He takes the time to understand your personal goals, answer questions, and provide guidance that actually makes sense for your situation. His professionalism, patience, and genuine commitment to helping clients build a better future really set him apart. You never feel like just another client.”

2026 Client

Coaching client · Raleigh, NC

Video Testimonial

It doesn’t matter where you are in your financial journey-just starting out, living paycheck to paycheck or deep in debt-this booklet provides the blueprint for taking control of your money.  It gave us the tools to shift our mindset from financing our lifestyle to owning it.  This easy to understand 20 page masterpiece is a must read!

Mike & Gwen Williams

Book Reviewer · Durham, NC

Video Testimonial

“What I appreciate most about Carlos at Lifestyle Ownership is how much he genuinely cares about the people he works with. He listens, communicates clearly, and makes sure you understand every step of the process. His approach to personal growth, financial empowerment, and long-term success makes working with him a positive experience. If you’re looking for someone who puts your goals first, Carlos is someone you can count on.”

2025 Client

Workbook reader · Charlotte, NC

Live workshops in the Triangle

Book and 6 guided workbooks

Licensed in NC since 2006

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To understand your cash flow, you need accurate information about your income, expenses, bills, and payment dates. Start by listing all sources of money coming in, including regular income and additional earnings. Then record outgoing payments such as rent, utilities, subscriptions, debt payments, and everyday expenses. Comparing these figures helps you see whether you have enough money available to cover obligations, build savings, and prepare for upcoming costs.

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Questions

Frequently asked questions

Still unsure where to start? Call or email Carlos directly, Monday to Friday, 9 AM to 5 PM. Browse all FAQs

Call 919-205-8485

What is the Lifestyle Assessment?

A free, 30-statement self-assessment based on the Lifestyle Ownership™ framework. It scores you across six areas: lifestyle clarity, debt and financial control, cash flow and income, tax strategy, investing, and mindset and discipline.

About five minutes, and it is completely free. You rate each statement from 1 (strongly disagree) to 5 (strongly agree).

You see your scores on screen right away and receive a results letter by email. Over the next few days you will get short lessons based on your lowest scores, plus an option to talk with Carlos.

No. Lifestyle Ownership is built for people who feel stuck or behind. You need a starting point and a plan, not a perfect financial past.

No. It is a financial education company first: coaching, workshops, books and workbooks. Insurance and financial products are offered only when they fit your strategy.

Lifestyle Ownership: The Introduction and the six pillar workbooks are available on the Books & Workbooks page.

Start with one question

What's your number?

Find out what the life you want really costs and where your finances stand today. It takes five minutes and it is free.

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